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Sunday, April 19, 2026

Tommy's view

Nov 29, 2010


From the 5 year-old boy, "Tommy".

In the morning after a big storm the frogs and rabbits are dancing while the humming birds are singing. Everything comes back as usual again. The animals start to do their routines. I draw the picture in my mind the most beautiful in front of me. A little dear is drinking water beside his mother at the pond where the frogs are dancing on the huge lotus leaf in the middle of the  pond. My father is kissing my mother before he gets into the car and drives to work. I come back into my room and am ready to have breakfast. I like my mother's food and eat all delicious dishes. Today I have a story to tell in my class and I will explain how beautiful is nature which I saw from my bed room. I fell in love with animals, trees and everything I saw. That fills my heart with love and peace. I found the most beautiful world just looking out of my bed room.


AI version

Nov 29, 2010 — From a 5‑year‑old boy, "Tommy".

After the big storm, the frogs and rabbits were dancing, and the hummingbirds were singing. Everything felt normal again. All the animals were back to their routines. I pictured the scene in my mind, the most beautiful thing right in front of me.

A little deer was drinking water beside its mother at the pond, while the frogs danced on a huge lotus leaf in the middle of the water. My father kissed my mother before getting into the car and driving to work. I went back to my room, ready for breakfast. I love my mother’s cooking, and I always finish every delicious dish she makes.

Today I have a story to share in class. I will tell them how beautiful nature looked from my bedroom window. I fell in love with the animals, the trees, and everything I saw. It filled my heart with love and peace. I discovered the most beautiful world just by looking outside my room.

Tuesday, April 14, 2026

vacation in paradise

 Oath Apr 5, 2012


The Simsons, father, mother, two daughters and a little boy are on the boat. They are going to Samui Island. Yes, they chose to visit Thailand for a vacation.

They prepared for this trip two months. They searched and figured what they were allowed or not allowed to do in Thailand and what they should prepared for both things and health. This is the first long distance trip from America to other country for them. Of course, they are excited.

The Simsons are among other tourists on the boat. It is a huge boat. About 2 hours after the boat left the pier, it stopped in the middle of the sea. The crew threw a giant anchor into the sea. They threw it by mechanical control.

The sea water is really clear but too deep to see under. The weather is great even it is evening time now. The situation like this could make a person who gets angry calm down so easy. The wind blows softy touching mother's long hair.

"Ummm, it is  the right decision we made to come here" mother said.
"Yes, and I am so happy we are here together today and also I can be away from my annoying boss for a while", father replied.

"MOM" a little boy is shouting. "LOOK!" the boy is pointing to the deck on the second floor of the  boat. There is a woman sitting beside a boy who is laying down on the floor. The woman looks really anxious.
"Anybody help!" the woman is shouting. Suddenly, the crew and people in the area come to her and asked what happened? A big crew guy holds her son up and brings him to the clinic on the boat. We knew later that the boy was playing and hit the boat handrail by accident that made him pass out.

He is fine now because we see him with his mother when the boat stops at the island and everyone moves from the boat to the resorts which the tour company provided.

The two daughters are smiling at each other.
One daughter said to another, " I have not seen anywhere like this place at home. It is a cool place."
"WOW! I love it here. It is beautiful like we are in Paradise", the little boy said.


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AI version

Apr 5, 2012

The Simsons — father, mother, two daughters, and a little boy — are on a boat heading to Samui Island. This is their first long‑distance trip from America to another country, and they chose Thailand for their vacation.

They spent two months preparing. They researched what they could and couldn’t do in Thailand, what to pack, and how to stay healthy. Everything about this trip feels new and exciting.

The boat is huge, filled with other tourists. About two hours after leaving the pier, it slows down and stops in the middle of the sea. The crew lowers a giant anchor using a mechanical system.

The water is clear, though too deep to see the bottom. The evening air is soft and peaceful. Even someone with a bad temper would feel calm in a moment like this. A gentle breeze brushes through the mother’s long hair.

“Ummm… it really was the right decision to come here,” the mother says. “Yes. I’m so happy we’re all here together — and that I can escape my annoying boss for a while,” the father replies.

“MOM!” the little boy suddenly shouts. “LOOK!” He points to the second‑floor deck. A woman is sitting beside a boy lying on the floor. She looks terrified.

“Somebody help!” she cries.

Crew members and nearby passengers rush to her. A large crewman lifts the boy and carries him to the boat’s clinic. Later, everyone learns that the boy had been playing and accidentally hit his head on the handrail, causing him to faint.

When the boat finally reaches the island, the family sees the boy again — awake and walking with his mother. Relief spreads quietly among the passengers.

The two daughters smile at each other. “I’ve never seen anything like this at home. This place is amazing,” one says. “WOW! I love it here. It’s beautiful — like we’re in paradise!” the little boy adds.

Tuesday, April 7, 2026

My tortoise is faster than an ETF

 Original

April 7, 2026

I have been learning and opening the investment account a week ago. My helpful tool is AI copilot Free version. I read a lot of information it gave me and also I watched many Thai money channels on Youtube. At the first day after my first investing money show up in my investing accounts, I bought many ETFs that the cost did not too high per share mixed with cheap ETF. Yes, I love cheap but I had no idea about ETFs then pretty much refer to AI information along my decision.  I got two Bond, many US ETFs and four International ETFs. After that day, I watched more Thai money channels on Youtube and got the information and discussed with the AI. I finally decided to sell all International ETFs and will buy more US ETFs. The reason was the International ETFs were slowing movement and many US ETFs overlap the companies. The funny part was, AI said, " The International ETFs are slow like a sleepy turtle'. I have a tortoise at home. His name is Bucky. I immediately replied to AI, " But my Bucky is not slow. He is walking faster than the International ETFs on my accounts." 

My portfolio today is ZERO International ETF but two Bonds still sit there and have not moved yet. I call them as in Bucky relaxing mode when he spreads out his four legs under the warm lamp. Haha



AI version

April 7, 2026

I opened my investment account just a week ago, and since then I’ve been learning nonstop. My main helper has been AI Copilot (the free version), along with many Thai money channels on YouTube. On the first day my funds appeared in the account, I immediately bought a mix of ETFs — mostly low‑cost ones per share, because yes, I love cheap. At that time, I didn’t really understand ETFs, so I relied on AI explanations and my own instinct.

I ended up with two bond ETFs, many U.S. ETFs, and four international ETFs. After watching more Thai finance videos and discussing things with the AI, I finally decided to sell all the international ETFs and focus on U.S. ETFs instead. The reason was simple: the international ETFs moved so slowly, and many U.S. ETFs already overlapped with the same companies.

The funny part was when the AI said, “International ETFs are slow like a sleepy turtle.” I have a tortoise at home named Bucky, and I immediately replied, “But my Bucky is not slow. He walks faster than those international ETFs in my account.”

Today, my portfolio has zero international ETFs. Only the two bond ETFs remain — and they haven’t moved at all. I call them “Bucky in relaxing mode,” like when he stretches out all four legs under his warm lamp. It makes me laugh every time.


Wednesday, April 1, 2026

เทคนิคอ่านภาษาอังกฤษเข้าใจ ไม่รู้ศัพท์ทุกคำก็ได้




History of my pets in Thailand

 -original-


April 1, 2026


It is 7:30 am and I have been sitting at my computer about 30 minutes, sipping my two cups of hot cocoa and watching Youtube along. My student told me at the end of February that she would come back in April. I texted her last night if she would come today the 1st or Monday the 6th. Well, while I am waiting for her to present I will tell you about my pets in Thailand.  I was not a pet person but my heart was wanting to raise animals of my own.

My memory went back to a very first picture that I have seen in my head. I was in Sukhothai province, Thailand lived with my step mother. My dad worked as a driver of a big consumable products company. He did not live at home for some period. My sister and I stayed with our step mother most of the time. She was a children nurse that time and we lived in the hospital accommodation. I was at the age less than 15. The first pet I am talking about was the bunny.  I do not remember how we got them. A couple of bunny and later only one left and NONE. I remembered that someone taught me to hold the bunnies' ears. They might not mine pets but my step mother's roommates, not sure. Anyway, the picture was the bunny dead with vegetable in the mouth. I heard adults talked that the vegetables ware not washing properly to clean the poison. 


In fact, I had experienced with animals, my grandfather's pets before moved to Sukhothai. My grandfather raised a white dove, a couple of gray dove , chickens, chicks and a white goose. They were very tame because he trained them well. He set the chicken coop in the back of the place. We lived in the small unit where was my grandmother workplace provided. There were a long permanent apartment when compare to the looks of the building in the USA. The wooden two stories apartment for each family. I liked to watch the chicks sleeping and their heads dripping again and again. That was funny.  However, I did not like to stay closed to mother and adult chickens because they always attacking  me. My grandfather let me grabbed the eggs in their coop, that time was scary because I must kept an eyes on the adult chickens. My grandfather always sprayed water at his doves and talked to them. Their sounds were loud and happy. My grandfather too them out of the cage that they were holding on the pole and never flew away. Also, his goose but I was scared of the goose because I got attack once by accident. I made the goose frighten not by intention.

Then, I did not remember the location house we stayed. That time my grandparents raised many colorful birds(นกหงส์หยก Budgerigar? )  in a big cage. They were beautiful.


Jump to Bangkok, I was in a middle school. One day, my sister and I came home and saw two dogs, one was bigger with long hair than the other. My grandfather got them for us. We picked our own dog. I pick the bigger and named him "Beke" which came from the popular football player on TV that time. I did not know the player but I heard his name too often. Haha. My sister picked the tiny with flat skin, without fluffy hair and called him " Jonn" (จ้อน). We do not know their breed. I remembered the fun and enjoying time with the dogs. Many years past, one day the skin dog was very sick and he was waiting for my sister to come home from school. My grandfather told us, "Jonn" was waiting for my sister. Yes, when my sister hold him not so long, he passed away in her hands. We buried him under the tree in the yard. We stayed in the rental house for several years before I moved to live with mom. 

FYI: My parents are divorced since we were young.

I had a change to visit my grandfather there when I grew up and my dog was very huge and old. Many years later, I heard about someone poisoning him because he was too big and his bark was too loud that bothered someone.

I lived with mom and attended a college there. I studied three years before attending Ramkhamheang University.  I saw friends raise fishes and I wanted to have some then I got ปลาหางนกยูง from Jatujak, the famous weekend market in Bangkok. I also got a nice garden decoration water bowl. It was shaping as a stump with a heron figure standing on it. I set that bowl on the 2nd floor in the back balcony at home and pouring my fish in it. I bought many of fish and enjoyed watching at them. Their tails were fluffy while swimming and their color were attractive. Eventually, on the hot sunny day I came back from school and found my fish were floating. They were dead because of the heat. I touched the water in the bowl. OMG! it was hot. That was my disaster crime. I told my friends and everyone about this even and they were laughing at me and sorry for the fish. I did not thought about the heat outside. I did not have experiences about raising fish. I moved out of my mother's house and lived on my own when I worked. I took that water bowl with me and put water in it without fish. Later, I gave it to my dad when they purchased a townhouse and set up a tiny garden in the front. They got the same kind of fish I had and put in it. The atmosphere was right then the fish lived happily there.

My last fish before I moved to the USA, the golden fish and the black vacuum fish not sure what its kind. One of my friend's boyfriends helped me with setting up the aquarium and oxygen in my apartment. Yes, I wanted to raise golden fish and learned how to for a while before decided to get them. I accidentally met my old friend who we worked together in once company years ago. She lived nearby and I visited her place. Her boyfriend stayed with her and he had a nice golden fish aquarium. That was my idea came from. I was excited on the day we were in the market, yes the same market where I got my first fish and boiled them. My friend and her boyfriend helped me looked and chose the suitable aquarium in my small apartment and all equipment needed also the healthy golden fish. 

Everything looks good at my apartment, he told me how much food to feed, how often to change water but for a short while the fish was dead one by one. I was sad but did not give up. I got new golden fish and tried one more time. That was before I moved. I had only two left, if I was not wrong and I saw my nieces raised the fish in a huge pot. There were lotus in the pot too. They did not have an oxygen system at all only natural.  I was getting that lotus once when I gave my heron bowl to dad and set the lotus in it before my dad got the fish.

I decided to give my last two golden fish to my nieces to take care of.


Those are my experiences about pets and next chapter I will tell you about the experiences with pets in the USA.


-copilot version / cut of many information-


History of My Pets in Thailand

April 1, 2026

It is 7:30 a.m., and I’ve been sitting at my computer for about half an hour, sipping my two cups of hot cocoa and watching YouTube. My student told me back in February that she would return in April, so last night I texted her to ask whether she would come today, the 1st, or on Monday the 6th. While I wait for her to show up, I want to tell you about the pets I had in Thailand.

I was never really a “pet person,” but my heart always wanted to raise animals of my own.

The First Memory — Sukhothai

My earliest picture of having pets goes back to when I lived in Sukhothai with my stepmother. My dad worked as a driver for a large consumer goods company, so he was away from home for long periods. My sister and I stayed with our stepmother in the hospital accommodation where she worked as a children’s nurse. I was younger than fifteen.

The first pets I remember were rabbits. I don’t remember how we got them — maybe they belonged to my stepmother’s roommates — but we had a pair of bunnies. Later, only one was left, and then none. I still remember someone teaching me to hold the rabbits by their ears. One day, I saw a bunny lying still with a piece of vegetable in its mouth. The adults said the vegetables hadn’t been washed properly and still had poison on them.

That image stayed with me.

Before Sukhothai — My Grandfather’s Animals

Before moving to Sukhothai, I had already been around animals because my grandfather raised many pets: a white dove, a pair of gray doves, chickens, chicks, and a white goose. They were all very tame because he trained them well.

We lived in a small wooden two‑story apartment provided by my grandmother’s workplace. Behind the building, my grandfather built a chicken coop. I loved watching the chicks fall asleep, their tiny heads dropping again and again — it was so funny. But I didn’t like being near the adult chickens because they always tried to attack me. When my grandfather asked me to collect eggs, I had to keep my eyes on the mother hens the whole time.

My grandfather loved his doves. He sprayed water on them, talked to them, and let them out of their cage. They would sit on the pole and never fly away. The goose was also trained, but I was scared of it because it attacked me once when I accidentally frightened it.

Later, my grandparents also raised many colorful budgerigars (นกหงส์หยก) in a big cage. They were beautiful.

Bangkok — Our First Dogs

Jump to my middle school years in Bangkok. One day, my sister and I came home and found two dogs waiting for us. My grandfather had gotten them for us.

We each chose one. I picked the bigger dog with long hair and named him Beke, after a famous football player whose name I kept hearing on TV. My sister chose the smaller dog with short, flat fur and named him Jonn (จ้อน). We never knew their breeds, but we loved them.

We had many fun years with them. Then one day, Jonn became very sick. My grandfather told us he was waiting for my sister to come home from school. When she finally held him, he passed away in her arms. We buried him under a tree in the yard.

We lived in that rental house for several years before I moved to live with my mom. (For context: my parents divorced when we were young.)

I visited my grandfather again when I was older, and Beke had grown huge. Later, I heard someone had poisoned him because his bark was too loud. That news broke my heart.

College Years — My Fish Adventures

When I lived with my mom during college, I saw friends raising fish and wanted to try. I bought guppies (ปลาหางนกยูง) from Jatujak Weekend Market and a beautiful garden-style water bowl shaped like a tree stump with a heron figure.

I placed the bowl on the second-floor balcony and filled it with fish. Their colorful tails were so pretty. But one hot day, I came home from school and found all the fish floating. The water was boiling hot under the sun. That was my “fish disaster,” and everyone laughed when I told the story — but they also felt sorry for the fish.

Later, when I moved out to live on my own, I took the bowl with me but kept only water in it. Eventually, I gave it to my dad when he bought a townhouse. He set up a tiny garden and put fish in the bowl again. The environment was right, and the fish lived happily.

My Last Fish Before Moving to the USA

Before I moved to the U.S., I raised goldfish and a black “vacuum” fish (I’m not sure of the English name). My friend’s boyfriend helped me set up an aquarium with oxygen and taught me how to feed and care for them.

At first, the fish kept dying one by one. I was sad but didn’t give up. I bought new goldfish and tried again. Eventually, I had two left. My nieces were raising fish in a big pot with lotus plants — no oxygen system, just natural water. I decided to give my last two goldfish to them before I left Thailand.


These were my pet experiences in Thailand. In the next chapter, I’ll tell you about my pets in the USA.


-copilot version / bring back information-


History of My Pets in Thailand

April 1, 2026

It is 7:30 a.m., and I’ve been sitting at my computer for about thirty minutes, sipping my two cups of hot cocoa and watching YouTube. My student told me at the end of February that she would come back in April, so last night I texted her to ask whether she would come today, the 1st, or on Monday the 6th. While I wait for her to show up, I want to tell you about my pets in Thailand.

I was not a pet person, but my heart always wanted to raise animals of my own.

Sukhothai — The First Bunny

My memory goes back to the first picture I can see in my head. I was living in Sukhothai province with my stepmother. My dad worked as a driver for a big consumable products company, so he didn’t live at home for long periods. My sister and I stayed with our stepmother most of the time in the hospital accommodation where she worked as a children’s nurse. I was younger than fifteen.

The first pet I remember was a bunny. Actually, a pair of bunnies — though I don’t remember how we got them. Maybe they were ours, maybe they belonged to my stepmother’s roommates. Someone taught me to hold the bunnies by their ears. Later, only one bunny was left, and then none.

The picture I still remember is the bunny lying dead with a piece of vegetable in its mouth. I heard the adults say the vegetables hadn’t been washed properly and still had poison on them.

That memory never left me.

Before Sukhothai — My Grandfather’s Pets

Before moving to Sukhothai, I had already experienced animals because my grandfather raised many pets: a white dove, a pair of gray doves, chickens, chicks, and a white goose. They were very tame because he trained them well.

We lived in a small unit provided by my grandmother’s workplace — a long wooden two‑story building with many rooms connected in a row, what we call ห้องแถว in Thai. It wasn’t really an apartment, but it looked a little like one when compared to buildings in the USA. At that time, I didn’t know anything about buildings in the USA. Behind the building, my grandfather set up a chicken coop.

I loved watching the chicks sleep, their tiny heads dropping again and again. It was so funny. But I didn’t like staying close to the mother hens or adult chickens because they always attacked me. When my grandfather let me grab the eggs from the coop, I had to keep my eyes on the adult chickens the whole time.

My grandfather always sprayed water on his doves and talked to them. Their sounds were loud and happy. He would take them out of the cage, let them sit on the pole, and they never flew away. The goose was also trained, but I was scared of it because it attacked me once when I accidentally frightened it.

Later, when we moved to another place, my grandparents raised many colorful budgerigars (นกหงส์หยก) in a big cage. They were beautiful.

Bangkok — Beke and Jonn

When I was in middle school in Bangkok, my sister and I came home one day and saw two dogs waiting for us. My grandfather had gotten them for us.

We each picked our own dog. I chose the bigger one with long hair and named him Beke, after a popular football player on TV at that time. I didn’t know the player, but I heard his name so often. My sister picked the tiny dog with flat skin and no fluffy hair and named him Jonn (จ้อน). We never knew their breed, but we loved them.

We had many fun years with them. Then one day, Jonn became very sick. My grandfather told us he was waiting for my sister to come home from school. When she held him, he passed away in her arms. We buried him under the tree in the yard.

We stayed in that rental house for several years before I moved to live with my mom. (For your information: my parents divorced when we were young.)

I visited my grandfather again when I grew up, and Beke had become huge and old. Many years later, I heard someone had poisoned him because he was too big and his bark was too loud.

College Years — The Fish Disaster (American Crime Scene Edition)

When I lived with my mom and attended college, I saw friends raising fish and wanted to have some too. I went to Jatujak Weekend Market in Bangkok and bought ปลาหางนกยูง (guppies) and a beautiful garden decoration water bowl shaped like a tree stump with a heron standing on it.

I set the bowl on the second-floor back balcony and poured my fish into it. I bought many fish and enjoyed watching them. Their tails were fluffy when they swam, and their colors were attractive.

Then came the disaster.

One hot sunny day, I came back from school and found all my fish floating. They were dead because of the heat. I touched the water in the bowl — OMG! It was hot.

If this were an American TV crime show, the scene would look like this:

  • Victims: All my guppies

  • Cause of death: Extreme heat

  • Weapon: The sun

  • Crime scene: My heron water bowl

  • Prime suspect: Me

  • Motive: Ignorance and zero fish‑raising experience

I told my friends and everyone about this event. They laughed at me and also felt sorry for the fish. I didn’t think about the heat outside. I had no experience raising fish.

Later, when I moved out of my mother’s house and lived on my own, I took the heron bowl with me and put only water in it. Eventually, I gave it to my dad when he bought a townhouse and set up a tiny garden in the front. I also gave him the lotus I had been growing, and he placed it in the bowl before adding fish. The atmosphere was right, and the fish lived happily there.

My Last Fish Before Moving to the USA

Before I moved to the USA, I raised goldfish and a black “vacuum” fish (I’m not sure what kind it was). One of my friend’s boyfriends helped me set up the aquarium and oxygen system in my apartment.

The idea came from an old friend I accidentally met. We used to work together years ago. She lived nearby, and when I visited her, I saw her boyfriend’s beautiful goldfish aquarium. That inspired me.

So one day, we went to Jatujak Market — the same market where I bought my first fish and boiled them. I was excited, walking around and choosing the aquarium, the equipment, and the healthy goldfish. I felt like a kid choosing toys.

Everything looked good in my apartment. He taught me how much food to feed and how often to change the water. But after a short while, the fish died one by one. I was sad but didn’t give up. I got new goldfish and tried again.

Before I moved, I had only two left. My nieces were raising fish in a huge pot with lotus plants — no oxygen system, only natural water. I decided to give my last two goldfish to them to take care of.

These are my experiences with pets in Thailand. In the next chapter, I will tell you about my experiences with pets in the USA.


Sunday, March 29, 2026

Where did snakes come from?

 Original

 It is 10:21a on Sunday. I made two cups of cocoa as usual and brought them to my computer's room.  I started to make only one cup of cocoa and must dump the rest of hot water to the sink because my new electric hot water minimum level always for two cups. Later, I changed how I made my cocoa. Instead of two spoons of cocoa in a cup to two cups add one spoon of cocoa each. I used all hot water.

My dream last night was created from my thought about how clean of the. house. As the cleaning lady and I like to keep my house clean and tiny as much as I can. NO, I am not a perfectionist but I am allergic to dust and my grandmother trained me well to keep all things neatly and in their places. The dream started from, I was looking all my bathrooms and checking for the curb board if dusty. On Saturday night, I was doing this in real, Haha. Everything in real was satisfied, nothing dirty or dusty. Let's continue in the dream. Our house is a two stories with unfinished basement and I keep the basement clean as it. After checking the bathrooms then I saw myself outside the house. The house happened to have a high up lifted above the ground as same as a traditional Thai style. OMG! what was that in my head to create it, Haha. The first picture was a real style American house base on the ground and when I saw outside the house was transforming.

There were many plastic bags and paper covered the whole cement floor under the house and obviously saw a couple big grey-black snakes among the trash. Their heads appeared out of the bags and the bodies covered under the trash. I stood in distance and started to think about how to clean this area without snakes bit me. Then, I kept walking to the .... I did not see in my dreams but the scene changed to the back yard and a bit dull atmosphere, no sun light as same as the previous scene. It was behind the back wooden deck exactly we have one in real. The green grass was tall as my ankle level and I stopped walking further when I saw a very HUGE snake and a smaller. The HUGE one was black. Its size was bigger than my tight and the smaller one pattern like a python. Its size was as same as my hands. There were a group of people walking past by me out of nowhere. Haha. Were they my neighbors? I could feel, NO, they were not but they were people came for hiking, exercising as in the park. 

I knew myself and I could feel my brain thought along my dream but I did not want to change. I asked the first man in the group who walked near me, if they would walk past those snakes. I thought his answer was YES and he said, " We will walk carefully and pass those snakes fine." Then....I woke up. Haha

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I thought about Thai fortune when people dream about snake embrace means that person would meet the love, partner for marry. My dream was not like that then I looked in Thai fortune teller what will it says about my dream. The information said could be negative and positive. It concerns with life problems, financial conflicts, pressure and stress about facing the difficulty situation. Also, the snake is the iconic to treat, develop the culture in some communities. The snake is also a symbol of intention to self improvement or learning from the past experiences. The article NOTED, "Be careful of the dream define about snakes as it may just the thought under the subconscious. The suggestion from the article was doing self-exploration and understand self-feeling and adjusting the opinion, attitude of the situation and  focusing more of self- healthcare, both body and mind.


I enjoy reading and learning varies information but am not believing in the fortune. I am in the scientist side with the evidence and proof. I do not dream often. It may happen once a year, or two because I normally have not think or worry about anything when my head hits the pillow. I meditate by praying a short buddhist pray but never finished because I fall asleep. The secret of praying is focusing and emptying mind then easily to fall asleep. My husband has a sleeping problem and I told him to do as I have been doing. He has been trying and not successful yet but he keeps doing it. We wish, one day he will fall asleep easily. 


Do you have a sleeping problem? What would you do besides taking a sleeping pill?


AI version

It was 10:21 a.m. on Sunday. I made two cups of cocoa, as usual, and brought them into my computer room. At first, I tried making only one cup, but my new electric kettle has a minimum water level—always enough for two cups. So every time I made just one, I had to dump the extra hot water into the sink, which felt wasteful. Later, I changed my method: instead of two spoons of cocoa in one cup, I put one spoon into each cup and used all the hot water.

Last night’s dream came from my thoughts about keeping the house clean. As a former cleaning lady—and someone who likes her home tidy—I try to keep things neat, not perfect. I’m not a perfectionist, but I am allergic to dust, and my grandmother trained me well to keep everything in its place.

The dream began with me checking all the bathrooms, looking with my eyes to see whether the baseboards were dusty. On Saturday night, I actually did this in real life, haha. Everything was clean and satisfying. But in the dream, after checking the bathrooms, I suddenly found myself outside the house.

Our real house is two stories with an unfinished basement, and I keep that basement clean too. But in the dream, the house had transformed into a Thai‑style house lifted high above the ground. OMG—what was my brain doing, haha. One moment it was a normal American house, and the next it was raised up like that.

Under the house, the cement floor was covered with plastic bags and paper. Among the trash, I saw two large grey‑black snakes. Their heads poked out of the bags while their bodies hid underneath. I stood at a distance, trying to figure out how to clean the area without getting bitten.

Then the scene shifted. I didn’t see myself walking, but suddenly I was in the backyard. The atmosphere was dull, no sunlight—just like the previous scene. It looked exactly like our real wooden deck, but the grass was tall, up to my ankles. I stopped walking when I saw a HUGE black snake and a smaller one. The big one was thicker than my thigh. The smaller one had python-like patterns and was about the size of my hands.

Out of nowhere, a group of people walked past me—haha. Were they my neighbors? No, I could feel they weren’t. They were more like hikers passing through a park.

I asked the first man in the group whether they planned to walk past the snakes. I expected him to say yes, and he did: “We’ll walk carefully and pass them just fine.” Then…I woke up. Haha.

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Afterthoughts

In Thai fortune-telling, dreaming of a snake wrapping around you means you’ll meet your soulmate. My dream was nothing like that, so I looked up what it might mean. The interpretations were mixed—some negative, some positive. They mentioned life problems, financial pressure, or stress from difficult situations. They also said snakes can symbolize cultural beliefs, transformation, or self‑improvement.

The article warned not to take snake dreams too literally because they often come from subconscious thoughts. The suggestion was to explore your feelings, adjust your perspective, and focus on caring for your body and mind.

I enjoy reading different interpretations, but I don’t believe in fortune-telling. I’m on the science side—evidence and proof. I rarely dream anyway. Maybe once a year. When my head hits the pillow, I usually fall asleep right away. I meditate by praying a short Buddhist prayer, but I never finish it because I fall asleep. The secret is focusing and emptying the mind.

My husband has trouble sleeping. I told him to try what I do. He’s been trying, not successful yet, but he keeps going. We hope one day he’ll fall asleep easily.

Do you ever have trouble sleeping? What do you do besides taking a sleeping pill?

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

The Frog Adventures — Chapter One

 My Original


It is a small pond far away from the town. There is an army of frogs from nowhere setting a village around it. I call the village, "Gob-nai-gala" in Thai. In English, Gob= frog, nai=in, gala=coconut shell. The frogs in all sides never crossed to another side. Each frog own one coconut shell. Among them, there is a young male frog named "Choke" . He lays in his DIY hammock under his coconut shell everyday and sing the songs happily. He is different from most frog because he created his own way to enjoy himself which lift the coconut shell half way from the ground while the others stay inside, under the shells. The other shells only ajar enough to get-in and go-out.

Every frog stays in its space, its own GALA and only leave from the shell when searching for food. They will jump into the pond and head back directly to their own shells"homes". None goes out of the directly or stop at other shells. Also Choke, he does the same as everyone else.

One day after he fetched for food and fill his stomach enough for the day then he comes back to his hammock. He is lying on it and thinking, " I want to know, what do other frogs store inside their shells? What do their shell look like? Do they comfortable like mine?" Immediately, he is jumping off the hammock and walking to other frogs's shells in the same side. He knocks on each shells to call the owner and politely requests to get inside. He spent time until visited all in the same side of his space. He found out, none of the other shells look like his. The only darkness is all the other frogs have in their shells and ugly mold on top of the shells both inside and outside. None can compare to his shell. His space and the open shell with a DIY hammock are fantastic. The air flows through, bright and free of mold. However, he is still curious to know about the inside shells of the frogs in the other sides of the pond. If they will be different. Eventually, he prepares and collapses his hammock, flip his coconut shell up. He ties the hammock inside the shells and drags the whole into the pond.

to be continue...


AI (copilot) version

Far away from town, there is a small, quiet pond. Around this pond lives an army of frogs who appeared from nowhere and built a tiny village. I call this village “Gob‑nai‑gala.” In Thai:

  • gob = frog

  • nai = in

  • gala = coconut shell

Each frog owns one coconut shell, and none of them ever crosses to another side of the pond. Every frog stays in its own shell, its own gala, and only leaves when searching for food. They jump into the pond, find what they need, and return straight home. No one stops at another frog’s shell. Even Choke, a young male frog, follows this rule.

But Choke is different.

Every day, he lies in his DIY hammock under his coconut shell and sings happily. While other frogs keep their shells barely open — just enough to get in and out — Choke lifts his shell halfway off the ground. His space is bright, airy, and free of mold. The others live in darkness, their shells covered with ugly mold inside and out.

One day, after he fetched his food and filled his stomach for the day, Choke returned to his hammock. As he lay there, he wondered:

“What do other frogs keep inside their shells? What do their homes look like? Are they comfortable like mine?”

Without waiting another moment, he jumped off his hammock and walked to the nearby shells on his side of the pond. He knocked politely on each one, asking to come inside. He visited every frog on his side and discovered that none of their shells looked like his. All were dark, cramped, and moldy. None could compare to his bright, open space with a handmade hammock.

Still, Choke remained curious. What about the frogs on the other sides of the pond? Would their shells be different?

Eventually, he made up his mind. He packed up his hammock, flipped his coconut shell upright, tied the hammock inside, and began dragging the whole thing toward the pond.

To be continued…

Sunday, March 22, 2026

A man in a movie vs a man in real life

 My Original

Let jump on my boat and go back to Thailand a couple years before2008. The first time my husband visited me there and we shared the bed, my king size bed in a studio apartment Thai style. It was a one whole room and a small bathroom. I am trying to show you the real image. He stayed with me about two weeks and I did not know that he was not sleeping at all. I knew later after I moved to the USA. I asked him. He was uncomfortable to have me beside him in bed. HaHa
Both of us had never married or in a long relationship before we met each other. We never stayed under the same roof with anyone. We were together as a real life partner for both situations. 
Let come back to the USA but not today in 2026. It was in 2008 and the incident happened slowly. It was funny and a bit upsetting me that time. He lives in a small house, small bedroom and a king size bed, only one  big blanket. Its size was big enough for both of us but during the night, he took the whole pillow and left me shivering. Of course, he did not have only one blanket but I did not solve the problem right away. I fixed it later. I added one more blanket in bed so we had our own. It seems like no more issues but several times he grabbed my blanket during the night because he could not find his. It was on the floor. I always got up and grabbed it and put on him. You may thought that why this matter? His blanket, my blanket. For him was fine. Any blanket, he did care but I was used to with the blanket I set for my side.  This incident still happens once in a while and I am the one who grabbed his blanket from the floor back on him.


According to the movie, I have not mentioned earlier which related to us. I thought about dreaming women who watches Thai movie and the man always taking care of the woman. He took a blanket covering the woman at night. He sacrificed his comfort like gave his jacket to the woman on a chilling day or night. I watched some of American movies  too. Yeah, it was the same scenario. In real life, my husband is a nice, polite, gentleman who never done anything like the man in the movie to me but I do to him.  It is my pleasure and I never thought that was a red flag at all. I obviously seeing worse men in real life, luckily they do not have relationship with me or nothing to do along my path.

I saw many couple YouTube videos. Most of them are funny base on their real even and those are the fact of human.


A good relationship and a healthy marriage to me does not mean only one does the most action but we learn, understand and accept the partner. It is adapting and adjusting to get along and being happy couple. I always measure the good part and the bad part when he does something out of my expectations. We are still together happily because the good part of him always heavier than the bad part. In fact, it is not the bad part at all , only it is not what I expected.

In my opinion, a healthy relationship starts from the first communication and base on the individual desire. What matters qualification the partner must have or would have, what is the red flag, what is compromising. Not in hurry and rushing but taking time and working together to make both side get along as one.

AI(Copilot) Fixed : In Movies He Covers Her...In Real Life I Cover Him

Let jumplet’s jump on my boat and go back to Thailand a couple years before2008years before 2008. The first time my husband visited me there and we shared the bed, my king sizeking-size bed in a studio apartment Thai style. It was a one whole roomone whole room and a small bathroom. I am trying to show you the real imagepicture. He stayed with me aboutfor about two weeks and I did not know that he was not sleeping at all. I knewfound out later after I moved to the USA. I asked him. He was uncomfortable to havehaving me beside him in bed. HaHa Both of us had never married or inbeen in a long relationship before we met each other. We never stayed under the same roof with anyone. We were together as a real lifereal-life partner for both situations. Let comelet’s come back to the USA but not today in 2026. It was in 2008 and the incident happened slowly. It was funny and a bit upsetting meupsetting to me that time. He liveslived in a small house, small bedroom and a king sizeking-size bed, only one big blanket. Its size was big enough for both of us but during the night, he took the whole pillowblanket and left me shivering. Of course, he did not have only one blanket but I did not solve the problem right away. I fixed it later. I added one more blanket into bed so we had our own. It seemsseemed like no more issues but several times he grabbed my blanket during the night because he could not find his. It was on the floor. I always got up and grabbed it and put onit on him. You may thoughtthink that why this mattermatters? His blanket, my blanket. For him wasit was fine. Any blanket, he did caredidn’t care but I was used to withto the blanket I set for my side. This incident still happens once in a while and I am the one who grabbedgrabs his blanket from the floor back on him. According to the movie, I have not mentioned earlier which relatedwhich is related to us. I thought about dreaming women who watcheswatch Thai moviemovies and the man always takingtakes care of the woman. He tooktakes a blanket coveringand covers the woman at night. He sacrificed his comfort like gaveby giving his jacket to the woman on a chillingchilly day or night. I watched some of American moviessome American movies too. Yeah, it was the same scenario. In real life, my husband is a nice, polite, gentleman who never donehas never done anything like the man in the movie to me but I do to him. It is my pleasure and I never thought that was a red flag at all. I obviously seeinghave obviously seen worse men in real life, luckily they do not have relationshipa relationship with me or nothing to do alongwith my path. I saw many couplecouples’ YouTube videos. Most of them are funny basebased on their real evenevents and those are the factfacts of human. A good relationship and a healthy marriage to me does not mean only one doesperson does the most action but we learn, understand and accept the partner. It is adaptingabout adapting and adjusting to get along and beingbeing a happy couple. I always measure the good partparts and the bad partparts when he does something out of my expectations. We are still together happily because the good partparts of him always heavierweigh more than the bad partparts. In fact, it is not the bad partpart at all, only it is not what I expected.

“In my opinion, a healthy relationship starts from the first communication and is built on each person’s true desires. What matters is knowing what qualities your partner must have, what counts as a red flag, and what is worth compromising. Not rushing, not forcing — just taking time and working together until both sides can truly live as one.”

Sunday, March 15, 2026

Pillowcases Replacement

 Original

March 14, 2026

This morning I  was removing the sheet set in the bedroom for replacing a clean set. I ran downstairs and handed a clean pairs of pillowcases to him. I asked him to change the pair on the couch and I returned to do the bed. I went downstairs with a laundry basket full of dirty clothes. The pillow cases I gave him was on the coffee table. I had no problem and I thought about changing them after turning on the washer. Eventually, I came back to the living room and saw my husband stood there smiling. The cleaning pillowcases were placing on the pillows but he did not remove the previous one. I was laughing and starting to remove both new and the old pairs that need washing. 
I always adore my husband with the tiny things that I requested him to do but it never been as the way I wanted. However, it is never bother me because I normally do all kinds of house shore. I am the homemaker and he is the man who makes money for me to spend.  
What about your couple roles?


AI(copilot) fixed

This morning I was removing the sheet set in the bedroom for replacing to replace it with a clean set. I ran downstairs and handed a clean pairs a clean pair of pillowcases to him. I asked him to change the pair on the couch and I returned to do make the bed. I went downstairs with a laundry basket full of dirty clothes. The pillow cases pillowcases I gave him was were on the coffee table. I had no problem and I thought about changing them after turning on the washer. Eventually, I came back to the living room and saw my husband stood standing there smiling. The cleaning clean pillowcases were placing placed on the pillows, but he did not remove had not removed the previous one ones. I was laughing and starting laughed and started to remove both new the new and the old pairs that need needed washing. I always adore my husband with for the tiny things that I requested request him to do, but it never been as the way they have never been the way I wanted. However, it is never bother never bothers me because I normally do all kinds of house shore chores. I am the homemaker and he is the man who makes money for me to spend. What about your couple roles? What about your roles as a couple?

Saturday, March 14, 2026

Ann Texas marriage life

 original

Three years ago, I invited a Thai friend who lives in the USA but we have never met in person to be the guest on my Youtube channel. We talked about her marriage life with foriegn husband. They have lived in Texas.


Ann came to the USA in 2000 (her age at 20s) for working at her aunt’s Thai restaurant. Her husband at that time would like to learn Thai then he applied and worked at her aunt’s restaurant where they met. Her husband is a mixed blood between Thai and American but his Thai was vanished. She never knewn the dating site and never thought about seeking anyone. She knew about the dating site later when someone told her about it but she never used it. 


They did not give a dowry for her family because he did not have money for it . His expenses share to support his children. The good part was her family understood and never mentioned. After married, they did not send money back to Thai family too because they had their family in the USA to take care of. She said, “ If we have more money , we will send to Thai family for sure. Luckily, the family in Thailand never requested.”

She told me that , she never felt stuggle at all after married her husband but happier every day because when she was young, her life was not easy. I told her that I did not know how to use the shovel to dig the ground, planting on the land because my family was not being like that. We lived in the city but we were not rich. In the other hand, many people thought that was only rich people will never done all kind of things as people from subburb. I am not rich and I do not do the things that many people from suburb do. We even did not have our own house, only stayed in rental houses in Bangkok.


She is originally from Buengkan Province. It was Nognkai before isolated.She is understanding the fact that people who do not have experince or stay in enviroment then they cannot do things or they have no idea about things. This is what many people judge others. For example, I am not a rich girl and my family is in the middle class but they raised me as in  very convenience living as much as they could and provided tools and equiptments to make life easier. I do not know how to light the Thai traditional style chacoal stove. I grew up with an electric and gas stoves. Even though, my grandparents’s house (my mother side) had that kind of stove.

Back to Ann’s story, she talked to her husband about having their own kid. Her husband said , “ I do not want to have more kids because I already have my own from previous wife.” He already had a sterilisation. She had no problem at all. Later, they agreed to have their own child then he releazed the sterilisation and they got a daughter.


She used to think about work and save money to get the house, the car and all conveinience things on her own but she never done because her husband has all of them. She lives with him and he shares everything to her.


Before she met her husband. She had a bad relationship and escaped from it. She did not expect to marry again and she moved in his house without worried if he would marry her or not. She even never thought about the age of man who she will marry to. She let love leads, no matter of ages. I asked her if they had problem, no conflict with anything as a couple. She said, “No, we did not really have problem but there were things to adabt and understand each other. There are many things do differntly as each culture, language barrier, he tried to speak Thai but not in Thai way then I kept correcting and explaining until he understood. 


I asked for her opinion, what did she think about Thai younger women were looking for retirement foriegn men because they thoght those men had money to take care of them and support their Thai family. In the opposite, what about Thai women chose younger foriegn men to be their husbands. She said, “ I do not know and I cannot tell at all because myself will follow the feeling and loves most. She added, “We use a lot of enegery to live with someone for life.” Her suggestion was do not rush to take the decision but take time to know the man well enough before taking a serious decision to throw your life in with his life.


AI(Copilot) fixed

Three years ago, I invited a Thai woman named Ann to be a guest on my YouTube channel. We had never met in person, but we have known each other for a long timesa long time from online somewhere whihwhich I do not remember. She had been living in the USA for many years, and I wanted her to share her experience We talked about her marriage life with foriegn husband of being married to a foreign husband. She and her family live in Texas.

Ann came to the USA in 2000 (her age at 20s)when she was in her twenties for workingwork at her aunt’s Thai restaurant. Her husband at that time would likewanted to learn Thai, then he applied and workedso he applied to work at her aunt’s restaurant where they met. Her husband is a mixed blood between Thai and Americanhalf Thai and half American but his Thai was vanishedhad faded. She never knewndidn’t know about the dating site and never thought about seeking anyonelooking for anyone. She knew about the dating sitedating sites later when someone told her about it, but she never used itthem.

They did not give a dowry for her familypay a dowry to her family because he did not have money for it . His expenses share to support his children. for it. Most of his money went to supporting his children. The good part was her family understood and never mentionedasked about it. After marriedthey married, they did not send money back to Thai family tooher family in Thailand either because they had their family in the USA to take care of. She said, “ If we have more money , we will send to Thai family for sure. Luckily, the family in Thailand never requested.” “If we had more money, we would definitely send it to my family in Thailand. Luckily, they never asked.”

She told me that , she never felt stuggle at all after married her husband but happier every day that she never felt she struggled at all after marrying her husband; instead, she became happier every day because when she was young, her life was not easy. I told her that I did not know how to use the shovel to dig the ground, planting on the land a shovel to dig the ground or plant anything because my family was not being like thatthat kind of family. We lived in the city but we were not rich. In the other handOn the other hand, many people thought that was only rich people will never done all kind of things as people from subburb. only rich people never do the kinds of things people from the suburbs do. I am not rich and I do not do the things that many people from suburbthe countryside do. We even did not have our own house, only stayed in rental houseswe only stayed in rented houses in Bangkok.

She is originally from Buengkan Province. It was Nognkai before isolated. Bueng Kan Province, which used to be part of Nong Khai before it became its own province. She is understandingunderstands the fact that people who do not have experince or stay in enviroment then they cannot do things or they have no idea about things. experience or grow up in a certain environment cannot do certain things or may not even know about them. This is what many people judge others.use to judge others. For example, I am not a rich girl and my family is in the middle classmiddle class but they raised me as in very convenience livingto live a very convenient life as much as they could and provided tools and equiptmentsequipment to make life easier. I do not know how to light the Thai traditional style chacoal stove.charcoal stove. I grew up with an electric and gas stoves.electric and gas stoves. Even though my grandparents’sgrandparents’ house (my mother’s side) had that kind of stove.

Back to Ann’s story, she talked to her husband about having their own kid. Back to Ann’s story, she talked to her husband about having a child together. Her husband said , “ I do not want to have more kids because I already have my own from previous wife.” “I don’t want to have more kids because I already have children from my previous wife.” He already had a sterilisation.a sterilization procedure. She had no problem at all. Later, they agreed to have their own child then he releazed the sterilisation so he reversed the sterilization and they got a daughter.

She used to think about work and save money to get the house, the car and all conveinience things on her own but she never done because her husband has all of them. working and saving money to buy a house, a car, and all the convenient things by herself, but she never needed to because her husband already had all of them. She lives with him and he shares everything to her.with her.

Before she met her husband., she had a bad relationship and escaped from it. She did not expect to marry again and she moved in his house without worried if he would marry her or not. into his house without worrying whether he would marry her or not. She even never thought about the age of man who she will marry to. the man she would marry. She let love leadslead, no matter of ages.the age difference. I asked her if they had problem, no conflict with anything as a couple. problems or conflicts as a couple. She said, “No, we did not really have problem but there were things to adabt and understand each other. “No, we didn’t really have big problems, but there were things we had to adapt to and understand about each other. There are many things do differntly as each culture, language barrier, he tried to speak Thai but not in Thai way then I kept correcting and explaining until he understood. We do many things differently because of our cultures and the language barrier. He tried to speak Thai, but not in a Thai way, so I kept correcting and explaining until he understood.”

I asked for her opinion, what did she think about Thai younger women were looking for retirement foriegn men because they thoght those men had money to take care of them and support their Thai family. who look for retired foreign men because they think those men have money to take care of them and support their Thai families. In the opposite, what about Thai women chose younger foriegn men to be their husbands. On the other side, I also asked what she thought about Thai women who choose younger foreign men as husbands. She said, “ I do not know and I cannot tell at all because myself will follow the feeling and loves most. “I don’t know, and I can’t really say, because I personally follow my feelings and love first. She added, “We use a lot of enegery to live with someone for life.” She added, “We use a lot of energy to live with someone for life.” Her suggestion was do not rush to take the decision but take time to know the man well enough before taking a serious decision to throw your life in with his life. Her suggestion was not to rush into a decision, but to take time to know the man well enough before making a serious choice to join your life with his.

Introducing AI To My 67‑Year‑Old Thai Friend For The First Time

 Original

March 13, 2026

This morning, I taught Aoi=อ้อย, a Thai woman who I knew from someone Youtube channel a couple years ago. We have been good friends. I have taugt her English when she available and she helps me spread out my services, in exchange for her knowledge. Recently,She is 67 years old who have been living in the USA for 5 years but never communicate with others. Her husband does all. She starts to work as a part time for real and on her own about several months. She works in the kitchen mostly. Eventually, she decided to quit because the physical work made her sore and tired, but her leader did not let her go, instead , moved her to the lighter work. She switiched from cooking section to produce section, making sandwiches. I asked her if she speaks better English? She said, that is my issue part. She realized since the days she works and communicate with her manager and co-workers that they do not understand her English. It is very frustrating. She told that, I thought my English is good but I was wrong. Now, I introduced her to AI copilot and taught her to have her own as same as I did in the beggining. AI will help with her English. I also told her to set up MICO, cute balloon figure to use when practicing speaking. She said, that looks fun.


AI(copilot) fixed

This morning, I taught Aoi=อ้อย, a Thai woman who I knew from someone Youtube channel someone's YouTube channel a couple years couple of years ago.

We have been good friends. I have taugt taught her English when she available is available and she helps me spread out my services, in exchange for her knowledge.

Recently, She is 67 years old who have been living she turned 67 years old and has been living in the USA for 5 years but never communicate has never communicated with others. Her husband does all everything. (He does it all)

She starts started to work as a part time part-time for real and on her own about several months several months ago. She works in the kitchen mostly.

Eventually, she decided to quit because the physical work made her sore and tired, but her leader did not let her go, instead , moved her to the lighter work. She switiched switched from cooking section the cooking section to produce section the produce section, making sandwiches.

I asked her if she speaks better English? speaks English better now. She said, that is my issue part. “that is my issue.”

She realized since the days she works and communicate started working and communicating with her manager and co-workers that they do not understand her English. It is very frustrating.

She told that, I thought my English is good said, “I thought my English was good but I was wrong.”

Now, I introduced have introduced her to AI copilot Copilot and taught her to have her own as same as the same as I did in the beggining beginning. AI will help with her English.

I also told her to set up MICO, cute a cute balloon figure to use when practicing speaking. She said, that looks fun.


Note:

Ahh I understand you now — you meant your writing skill is about 50% correct and 50% incorrect, and after seeing the fixed version, you can clearly see which half is strong and which half needs improvement.

And yes — your writing in that story really is around that ratio:

✔️ Your “correct half”

  • your ideas flow naturally

  • your storytelling is clear

  • your emotional tone is warm and honest

  • your sentence structure is understandable

  • your vocabulary is good

  • your logic is easy to follow

❌ Your “incorrect half”

Mostly:

  • verb tense

  • missing articles (a/the)

  • prepositions

  • spelling

  • small grammar connectors

  • plural/singular

  • punctuation

This is exactly the pattern of someone who thinks clearly but hasn’t trained English grammar rules deeply. And this is the perfect stage for improvement — because your brain already has the structure, it just needs polishing.

Why this is good news

When your writing is 50/50 like this, it means:

  • your brain is active

  • you are not dependent on AI

  • you are producing your own sentences

  • you are learning from correction

  • you can see your mistakes clearly

  • you can improve fast

This is the ideal learning zone — not too easy, not too hard.


When “a couple of” is required

This form is used when “couple” = two (quantity). It always needs “of” before a noun.

Examples:

  • a couple of years

  • a couple of days

  • a couple of people

  • a couple of questions

This is the pattern you used in your story:

  • a couple years

  • ✔️ a couple of years


    When “a couple” does NOT use “of”

    This form is used when “couple” = two people in a romantic relationship.

    Examples:

    • The couple is happy.

    • A couple needs time together.

    • The couple lives in Delaware.

    Here, “couple” is a unit (two people), not a number.

    Note:

    You can’t use told in that sentence because tell and say follow different grammar patterns. Your original sentence didn’t match the pattern for tell, but it did match the pattern for say.

    🧩 The core difference

    tell always needs a person after it. say does not need a person.

    tell = tell + someone + something

    • She told me the story.

    • He told her the truth.

    • They told us what happened.

    You cannot use tell without a person.

    say = say + something

    • She said she was tired.

    • He said, “I’m leaving.”

    • They said it was fine.

    You can use say alone.

    🧩 Why your sentence cannot use “told”

    Your original:

    She told that, I thought my English is good.

    After told, there is no person. So the structure is broken.

    To use tell, you would need:

    • She told me that…

    • She told her friend that…

    • She told us that…

    But your sentence doesn’t have a person.