RIP A poor little squarrel

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Once in the Summer, my husband walked to me and showed me his pain finger. 

Him: "I got bit from a squaral." 

Me : Should you see the doctor for rabies?

Him: not sure

Me: ok, I looked online, it might carries rabies. Call and ask someone.

Him: Who?

Me: ER? Police? anyone may give the information

I did not remember who he called, 911 maybe, or the ER somewhere. The answer he got made him relief and also, I looked at many information online, he was ok when got a bit from a squarral.

The incident was; 

He was doing something at the deck on Saturday morning and saw this poor tiny squarral injured, then he intended to help it. He grabbed (not supposed to do) it and that when it bit him. He put the tiny animal in the cat crate and fed it water and cat food. I told him, we should let it go. He said, but it was injured. It could not walk. Beside, it bit me what if I got rabies and doctor want to know what bit me? OK, we kept it in the cat crate a night and will released tomorrow morning.  On Sunday morning was my sad day. My husband told me that the poor squarral was gone. I was crying inside. "We should not put him in the crate", I said. My husband cried, " I should not catch him at first."  Hence, I told him we must burry it and pray for it. We will do this afternoon, now put it somewhere save from the big bird like a Hawk. ( I have a story to tell about a big bird).  Later in the afternoon, I grabbed my husband to the backyard and handed him a shovel to dig the hole under the big tree. "Where is the body?" He pointed me to the shade and said, "under there". I searched but I did not see. My husband walked to me and moved the piece of timber, and there was the body. I told him to gentle carry it and put it into the hole. Pray for it to not come back for a revenge. My husband said, " I did not kill it".  Eventually, we did what to save it body not to be a big bird meal. It was sad, thought. 

I watched many Youtube videos, there were people did CPR to tiny animals but we did not have skill. The best solution for us, let it be as nature. The lesson, never touch the animal if we do not know how to help.

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RIP A a poor little squarrelsquirrel

Once in the Summer, one summer, my husband walked to up to me and showed me his pain painful finger.
Him: He said, "I got bit from bitten by a squaral.squirrel."
Me : I said, Should you see the doctor a doctor for rabies?
Him: not sure He said, "I'm not sure."
Me: ok, I looked online, it might carries rabies. Call and ask someone.
I said, "Okay, I looked online, it might carry rabies. Call and ask someone."
Him: Who? He asked, "Who?"
Me: ER? Police? anyone may give the information
I said, "ER? Police? Anyone who may give you information."

I did not remember I do not remember who he called, 911 maybe, or the ER somewhere. The answer he got made him relief made him feel relieved and also, I looked at many information a lot of information online, he was ok when got a bit from a squarral. and he was okay after being bitten by a squirrel.

The incident was; The incident was this:
He was doing something at on the deck on Saturday morning and saw this poor tiny squarralsquirrel injured, then he intended to help it. He grabbed (not supposed to do) (which he was not supposed to do) it and that when that was when it bit him. He put the tiny animal in the cat crate and fed it water and cat food. I told him, we should let it go. "We should let it go," I said. He said, but it was injured. It could not walk. Beside, it bit me what if I got rabies and doctor want to know what bit me? "But it is injured. It cannot walk. Besides, it bit me—what if I get rabies and the doctor wants to know what bit me?" OK, we kept it in the cat crate a night and will released tomorrow morning. Okay, we kept it in the cat crate overnight and would release it the next morning.

On Sunday morning was my sad day. it became my sad day. My husband told me that the poor squarralsquirrel was gone. I was crying inside. "We should not put him in the crate", I said. "We should not have put him in the crate," I said. My husband cried, " I should not catch him at first." said, "I should not have caught him in the first place." Hence, I told him we must burry it and pray for it. So I told him we must bury it and pray for it. We will do this afternoon, now put it somewhere save from the big bird like a Hawk. "We will do it this afternoon. For now, put it somewhere safe from big birds like hawks." ( I have a story to tell about a big bird). (I have a story to tell about a big bird.)

Later in the afternoon, I grabbed took my husband to the backyard and handed him a shovel to dig the hole under the big tree. "Where is the body?" He pointed me to the shade and said, "under there". "Where is the body?" I asked. He pointed to the shade and said, "Under there." I searched but I did not see. I searched but I did not see it. My husband walked to over to me and moved the piece of timber, and there was the body. I told him to gentle gently carry it and put it into the hole. Pray for it to not come back for a revenge. We prayed for it not to come back for revenge. My husband said, " I did not kill it". "I did not kill it," he said. Eventually, we did what to save it body not to be a big bird meal. Eventually, we did what we could to save its body from becoming a big bird's meal. It was sad, thought. It was sad, though.

I watched many Youtube videos, there were people did CPR to tiny animals but we did not have skill. and I saw so many people did CPR on tiny animals, but we did not have that skill. The best solution for us, let it be as nature. The best solution for us was to let nature be. The lesson, never touch the animal if we do not know how to help. The lesson: never touch an animal if we do not know how to help.

Why we talked in different stories all the time?

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In 2005, my husband went to see me in person for the first time. One moment I was never forgetting, we were in the car. I was a driver and he was a passenger. He was sitting quietly while I was talking along.Eventually, he asked me about thing we drove past and I explained. Suddenly, he said, " Why we talk in different stories all the time?" At that moment, I had no idea. I tried my best to explain and answered his questions. I had never gotten the answer about what did he mean about different stories until I moved to the USA and my English was getting better.  I studied English in Thailand and what I learned was memorizing the meaning of words but I did not know the usage and situation. I remember like this word mean this in Thai then when we want to say in English just grab that word means in Thai.

In English, the situation matters and must be using the right word for that. For example, the  three English words ; Chance, Opportunity and Occasionally mean the same in Thai short word pronounce O - Gaas but in English the three words mean different things, different situations. I did not know that. I thought O-Gaas in Thai can use three words in English replacing each other but I was wrong.

Can you imagine how language barrier in relationship? and how patient a couple must have and try to understand each other? Luckily, I do not need to learn the third language for living as I chose my man who speaks English. Other than that, the third, forth, fifth or more languages are still my choices to learn if I have enough patience. 

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In 2005, my husband went to see me in person for the first time. One moment I was never forgetting never able to forget I have never forgotten was when we were in the car. I was a driver the driver, and he was a passenger the passenger. He was sitting quietly while I was talking along talking the whole time. Eventually, he asked me about thing the thing we drove past, and I explained. Suddenly, he said, “Why we talk are we talking in different stories all the time?”

At that moment, I had no idea. I tried my best to explain and answered answer his questions. I had never gotten got the answer about what did he mean he meant by “different stories” until I moved to the USA and my English was getting got better. I studied English in Thailand, and what I learned was memorizing the meaning of words, but I did not know the usage or the situation. I remember thinking like this: a word means this in Thai, then when we want to say it in English, just grab that word that means the same in Thai.

In English, the situation matters, and you must use the right word for it. For example, the three English words chance, opportunity, and occasionally mean the same in Thai, a short word pronounced O‑Gaas, but in English the three words mean different things and are used in different situations. I did not know that. I thought O‑Gaas in Thai could use the three English words interchangeably, but I was wrong.

Can you imagine how language barrier how a language barrier affects a relationship? And how patient a couple must be to try to understand each other? Luckily, I do not need to learn a third language for living because I chose my man who speaks English. Other than that, the third, fourth, fifth, or more languages are still my choices to learn if I have enough patience.

Whirlpool washer the lack of softener dispenser

February 23, 2026

We got new laundry machines. The deliver guys just left and I used them right away to see how do they work.

I discovered the lack of detergent and softener dispenser on the new washer and searched for solutions. The detergent is not the issue at all because we switched from liquid in the bottle to Pod many years. I looked for how to add softener for this model and I found two ways. 

First, manually add the softener at the rinse cycle. I was standing observation my washer to see when was the rinse cycle started. I watched it until the sign DONE. That meant, I missed the rinse cycle. Never mind for the first load, I added the second load and tested if I can stop the cycle and unlock the door.YES, however, I must keep looking for timing when the washed water drains and starts to fill clean water for rinsing. This is NO for me. I found the other solution and I am going to order the container. It is Downey ball. I do not know if it works good until I have it and use it. I will record the video , "How to add softener in the Whirlpool washer top load, the one does not have a dispenser. I looked and found out in the comments that there are many people asked for it. I thought, all the washer has the THREE dispensers for detergent,  bleach and softener. That was the reason, I did not look for it when we walked in the store, looked, chose, and ordered them.

This feels like , we down grade our machines from fully digital control panel to a half digital panel and the turning knob LOL The broken dryer and an old washer was LG front doors. AI told me, it was not down grade but TRANSITION.

By the way, this time I could manually fill the softener but not sure if that was the right cycle, will see when my laundry is done. I am surely ordering the downy ball for my convenience. I cannot keep watching the washer all the time.  At least, I can figured how to unlock the door myself during the cycles.

I unlocked the door after the water filler started which no water in the tank yet and poured the softener in it. I only hope that does not cause stain on the clothes. The information I got from searching said, " Never pour softener directly on clothes because it can be stained"

Yeah!, no stain and the clothes smell good as usual.

AI(copilot) fixed

February 23, 2026 

We got new laundry machines. The delivery deliver guys just left and I used them right away to see how they work how do they work. I discovered the lack of a detergent and softener dispenser on the new washer and searched for solutions. The detergent is not the issue at all because we switched from liquid in the bottle to Pods many years ago (We switched from liquid in the bottle and we have been using Pods for many years). I looked for how to add softener for this model and I found two ways. First, manually add the softener at the rinse cycle. I was observing standing observation (standing there, observing) my washer to see when the was rinse cycle started. I watched it until the sign DONE. That meant I missed the rinse cycle. Never mind for the first load. I added the second load and tested if I could stop the cycle and unlock the door. YES, however, I must keep looking for the timing when the wash washed water drains and starts to fill clean water for rinsing. This is a NO for me. I found the other solution and I am going to order the container. It is a Downy ball. I do not know if it works well good until I have it and use it. I will record the video, “How to add softener in a Whirlpool top‑load washer that does not have a dispenser.” I looked and found out in the comments that many people have asked for it. I thought all washers had has the THREE dispensers for detergent, bleach, and softener. That was the reason I did not look for it when we walked in the store, looked, chose, and ordered them. This feels like we downgraded down grade our machines from a fully digital control panel to a half‑digital panel and a turning knob LOL. The broken dryer and old washer were LG front‑loaders. AI told me it was not a downgrade but a TRANSITION. By the way, this time I could manually fill the softener but I am not sure if that was the right cycle. I will see when my laundry is done. I am surely ordering the Downy ball for my convenience. I cannot keep watching the washer all the time. At least I figured out can figured how to unlock the door myself during the cycles. I unlocked the door after the water started filling filler started, when there was no water in the tank yet, and poured the softener in it. I only hope that does not cause stains on the clothes. The information I got from searching said, “Never pour softener directly on clothes because it can cause stains.” Yeah! No stains and the clothes smell good as usual.